"Thanks for showing up as a steady, uplifting, caring, and supportive person in my life. I likely don't realize the full extent of the benefit of your presence in my life," he shares with a sincere intention to communicate gratitude. "Thank you for sticking it out, for not giving in to the voices calling you to shut me out when you've felt the worst during all the years we've known each other. Thank you for giving us a chance to prove to ourselves and model to our child that a great relationship - with its playful ups and mostly graceful downs - is possible between people who once were too wounded to carry on as it was. That a strong foundation can be built on the ground where once there was none. That in all the swaying, we only grow stronger, because the more we are able to bend, the less likely we are to break under pressure. Thank you for this dance. May it last a lifetime." She responds as she imagines her heart wrapping itself around all of their past hurts and misgivings. As the day comes to a close, they shift to a conversation of less significance. While the words that follow might not be remembered, what will stay with them for a while is the feeling of safety. There is boundless love nestled in their hearts, reminding them that they already have all that they have been searching for. 2020
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